Kamano pakeng tsa monna le mosali e fokolisehile, joalo ka khalase ea khalase le mekete e le 'ngoe e mebe, polelo e nyelisang kapa ketso e fosahetseng,' me e ka fofa likoto ka nakoana. Empa ha u kena lenyalong, batho ba lebala ka taba ena mme ba hopole feela ha monna a tloha, 'me bothata bo hlaha mabapi le hore na o ka mo khutlisa joang. U se ke ua lebella hore u tla khona ho khutlisa monna ka potlako hobane ts'ebetso ena e fokotseha butle - sena ha se etsoe ka letsatsi, u ke ke ua potlakela ho sekaseka boemo, ho fetola ka hare le ho khutlisetsa maikutlo a hae.
Ho na le lintlha tse fapaneng tsa ho khutlisa monna, har'a tsona ke mefuta eohle ea litlhapi. Li ratoa haholo hona joale, empa ba bangata ha ba utloisise hore ho ka khoneha ho khutlisa monna feela ka lebaka la ho itšetleha ka kelello, ha ho na bothata ba ho khutlisetsa maikutlo mona. 'Me mekhoa ea boloi e felisa feela likamano tsa balekane.
Haeba u batla ho khutlisa monna oa hao ka boeena, joale liphiri tse ling tsa kelello li ka u thusa hore u khutlisetse monna oa hau ka lapeng.
Tsela ea ho khutlisa monna - keletso ea setsebi sa kelello
Litsebi tsa kelello li na le maikutlo a bona tabeng ea ho khutlisa monna hantle 'me li tiisa hore ho hlile ho khoneha.
1. Pele, nahana ka hore na u hloka motho ea u qhekelitseng ka ho teba. Ha ua lokela ho e phelisana haeba:
- u na le lipakane tse fapaneng bophelong;
- u feela u itšetlehile ka eena ka lichelete;
- u tšaba ho songoa ke ba bang.
Ho bohlokoa ho leka, ha:
- u ntse u mo rata mme u mo hloloheloa haholo;
- u se u loketse ho fetoha;
- u lumela liphoso tsa hau.
2. Haeba, ka ho tloha ha monna, lefats'e la hau le se na letho mme o nahana hore na u etse eng e le hore u khutlisetse monna, joale o lokela ho ba le mamello pele. Tabeng ea ha monna a ratana le motho e mong, itokisetse hore a ke ke a hlokomela ntho leha e le efe ka nako e itseng, ntle le ho mo rata. U se ke ua tšoha, o kile a fetisetsa sena le uena. Joale o tla hlokomela mefokolo ea mosali e mocha.
3. E lokela ho utloisisoa hore ha ua lokela ho khutlisa kamano ea khale, o hloka ho theha kamano e ncha le molekane oa khale. Ho etsa sena, o tlameha ho hlahloba bophelo ba hau hammoho, ho lebala litletlebo tse fetileng, ho sekaseka liphoso le ho li lokisa. 'Me haeba u batla ho tseba ho khutlisa monna oa hao ea ratoang - fetola uena.
3. Nka lekhasi, le arohane likarolo tse peli, ngola ka lehlakoreng le le leng, joalokaha ho bonahala ho uena, ke litšobotsi life tse u khahlang ho monna haholo, 'me ka bobeli-e leng se ka mo arohanyang. Hona joale lenane lena le tla ba khopotso ho uena, seo u lokelang ho se etsa le seo u lokelang ho se qoba ha u sebelisana le eona.
4. Kelellong, ho na le keletso e 'ngoe ea bohlokoa ea ho khutlisa monna oa hao - ha ho hlokahale hore u khaotse ho kopana le eena, haholo-holo haeba u e-na le bana. Ho mo lumella ho kopana le bana lapeng kapa ho isa bophelo bo tloaelehileng (o ka mo kopa ho thusa ho lokisa ntho e ka tlung, kapa ho qeta nako le bana ka phomolo), hangata o ka ela monna oa hae tlhokomelo. Mosali ea bohlale a ke ke a qoba ho kopana le beng ka monna oa hae le metsoalle ea hae, eo ka leano le nepahetseng, a ka mo thusang hore a mo khutlise. Litsebi tsa thobalano li lumela hore esita le ka mor'a tlhalo ea molao, ha monna a ntse a sa ngolise likamano tse ncha, ke habohlokoa ho boloka bonyane kamano e mofuthu le eena, 'me ka mokhoa o phahameng - thobalano (haeba u lumellane le bethe).
5. Ha u kopana le eena, u se ke ua iketsa eka u hlekefetsoe, u se ke ua bontša bohloko ba hao - u thabe 'me u se na mathata. Kahoo u nyahamisa motho, o ne a emetse hore u lle, u hlalose kamano eo u tla mo kōpa hore ae khutlele, 'me uena le ntle le eona ha u mpe.
6. Nka nako: fetola moriri oa hau, ntlafatsa liaparo tsa hao tsa boithabiso, etela botle ba salon, boithabiso bo ncha.
E-ea li-discos, kopana le banna. Hantle, haeba a tseba ka sena, mme u ka tsosa ho eena tlhaho ea mong'a lona.
Ntho ea bohlokoa ke hore u se ke ua pheta liphoso tse tšoanang hape ka mor'a hore monna a khutle.